Our purpose is to assure that these very important days are well planned and run smoothly for the families involved.  We update all wedding and funeral planning information sheets for the office/website.  We follow a checklist to prepare the church for mass.  We meet with the engaged couple to review the new guidelines for wedding preparation and officiate at the wedding rehearsal.  We prepare a worship aid for wedding and funeral masses (per the priest) as well as greet and support the family/friends as they enter the church for mass.  The church is then returned to its original setting.
We alternate so that 2 persons attend funeral masses and the duties are shared.